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Tom Gabel of Against Me! comes out as transgender ⇢

Against Me! has been one of my favorite bands since the ninth grade.  I used to yell lyrics to “Reinventing Axl Rose” and “Sink, Florida, Sink” and “We Laugh At Danger” all the time with my best friends.  Tom Gabel’s voice has always been fucking awesome and when I saw them live, I couldn’t shake the feeling of exceptional happiness for days.

Tom Gabel came out to Rolling Stone this week as transgender, as well as her plans to transition.  I am…exceptionally excited about this.  I always wondered if “The Disco Before the Breakdown” was about Tom being gay, but now I wonder if this is what it is.  From the article:

Because this is the first time a major rock star has come out as transgender, the singer made a point of speaking openly about it. “I’m going to have embarrassing moments,” says Gabel, “and that won’t be fun. But that’s part of what talking to you is about – is hoping people will understand, and hoping they’ll be fairly kind.”

I couldn’t be more excited about this.  The fact that a major musician has come out as transgender is amazing.  There will be a backlash, I’m sure, as there always is whenever somebody comes out with news that displeases the assholes of the world.  But we should all take this opportunity to be openly supportive of transgender people—a huge group of people that gets remarkably ignored and/or criticized by the mainstream media.

Cheesy, but true: Walking is still honest and we haven’t given up on you.

This is what happened to CeCe.

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Cece McDonald stood up to bigots and survived a hate crime. Now she’s in the county jail waiting to be tried for second degree murder. This is a story about intersectionality – what happens when a young trans woman of color goes up against white supremacy, misogyny and transphobia. It’s a story about what happens when you have to fight for your life.

It began last June, the night of the 5th, when Cece and her friends – all young, black and queer – decided that they wanted to walk to the grocery store. The grocery store in question is in south Minneapolis just off Lake Street, the busy, polluted, vital artery running from the wealthy white neighborhoods by the lakes through blocks of working class, multiracial, immigrant businesses before it ends in upmarket gentrification at the river. To get to the store, the group had to walk past a dive bar called the Schooner. Dean Schmitz and his friends were standing outside the Schooner’s side door. All were older – Dean was 47 – and all were white. When they saw CeCe and her friends walk by, they started yelling – “faggots” “chicks with dicks” “n*****s” – a litany of vile abuse targeted at a group of much younger strangers. CeCe McDonald has a strong sense of justice – she decided to confront Dean and his friends. So she and her group walked toward the bar. 

Before we go any further, let’s talk about CeCe. She’s 23, a college student in fashion design, a trans woman, Black, femme, very funny and widely known to be a generous person – a woman who housed and took care of her chosen family of younger queer and trans folks. Her friends call her Honee Bea. CeCe is someone who fights for social change who even from jail has been urging her supporters to help other victims of white supremacy – including the family of Jaime Gonzalez, who was killed by the Texas police while he was at school. She is someone who has faith in herself, in her community, in her values. “Love is inevitable and overcomes any and all things,” she writes. CeCe and her friends are brave and tough, strong enough to walk around being visible in a world that attacks and criminalizes you if you’re young and African-American, and doubles the assault if you’re young and African-American and trans and femme.

You probably know – if you’re trans you definitely know – that trans women of color face incredible, staggering rates of violence and homicide. In most places it is essentially legal to discriminate against trans people in housing, employment and social services. As a result, trans people, especially trans women, are socially vulnerable in all kinds of ways – and vulnerable turns into “criminalized”, whether it’s because you can’t change your legal documents to match your gender or because you’re homeless and panhandling or because you’re doing sex work to make the rent…or because you have to fight to keep yourself safe. Trans people are ten to fifteen times more likely to have been incarcerated than cis people. Nearly half of all African-American trans people have spent time in the prison system. Seventy percent of the GLBTQ people murdered in 2010 were people of color. Forty-four percent were trans women. If you’re vulnerable, you have to wonder – will someone assault you? Will you survive? Will anyone help you? That’s a pretty heavy thing to carry around in the back of your mind every day.

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So Juan and I are having a discussion about language and gender identification. He wonders if being a native speaker of a heavily gendered language (Spanish, French, Portuguese and so on) affects the number of people who identify as bigender, genderqueer, otherwise outside the male/female binary. I wonder how non-binary people discuss their identity in these languages or if it’s even possible.

The only non-binary native speaker of a Romance language I know is an acquaintance, named Felipe. They live in Curitiba and speak Portuguese. And whilst they always realised that they didn’t identify as male, they didn’t identify as non-binary until they became fluent in English, read a bunch of gender stuff online and found singular ‘they.’ We only speak in English because they say that they feel ‘suffocated by the Portuguese language.’

I’m interested to hear more about this, more personal stories like this. As a genderqueer (half)-Brazilian and a student of French who prefers singular they in English, I must confess a personal interest in learning to navigate Romance languages in a way that is true to my identity.

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The Polish word for moon is masculine, while in most Romance languages it is feminin. Why?

I’ve actually wondered about this myself.  Although English has many words with masculine/feminine connotations (in all their semi-imaginary glory), I’ve often thought about how many languages have inherently “masculine” and “feminine” structures to words, a concept I find unnecessary and anti-inclusive.  Nevertheless, I’m unsure of how somebody utilizing one of those languages would be able to express a non-binary gender.  I’m assuming it’d just be an evolving sort of thing; I mean, ‘ze’ and ‘hir’ weren’t automatically created without forethought (although if I’m not mistaken, Shakespeare definitely used the singular ‘they’ so that’s been around for quite some time…).

I’m sure it is possible and happens all the time.  Perhaps certain languages may not be super inclusive but discussing gender and describing it differently than “standard” male/female terms can undoubtedly occur.  I’m not fluent in Spanish but I can already think of ways to describe being nonbinary.  I don’t know what would be the actual exact equivalents of “genderqueer” and whatnot, unfortunately, but I’m certain that the nonbinary communities of many different cultures have discussed this.

I’m curious to see people discuss this!

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Demand that the McDonald's employees cheering while a trans woman is being horribly beaten are held responsible. ⇢

After an unidentified transgender woman tried to use the bathroom at a Baltimore McDonald’s, two patrons started attacking her in full view of other customers and employees. These employees can be heard on the video shouting words of encouragement to the attackers. It’s time we DEMAND that justice be served and that EVERY McDonald’s employee involved in this brutal hate crime be held accountable.”

It takes a certain kind of person to turn a blind eye to violence when it’s literally in the same room as they are, particularly a random act of violence resulting from hatred.  It’s terrifying to think that you might be doing something as simple as pissing and others will deem it so offensive to themselves that they feel it necessary to actually physically harm you.  Comments are terrible—insults are still cruel and rude and completely hateful—but it’s a much larger breed of horrid to decide it’s worth it to physically inflict violence on another human being just to prove the point: You’re not welcome.

And it scares the breath out of me that people can actually watch a hate crime take place (or any violent crime, for that matter) and not only make no attempt to stop it, but also to try and make it worse.  If somebody who was born with a dick utilizes the same bathroom as I do, then who the fuck am I to stop them?  This includes trans women, genderqueers, extremely “masculine” men, “feminine” men, whatever—it doesn’t matter what the parts are or what people identify as: it’s a fucking bathroom.  It’s there for pissing and shitting and changing tampons and a whole variety of lovely things, and who the fuck is to say that one person is “qualified” to utilize a space and another isn’t?

Additionally: If you have any (as in, any—that includes, but is not limited to hating trans* folks, the “I don’t care as long as they don’t talk to/hit on/come near me” approach, the “they’re making it up” approach, etc.) prejudice against trans* people of any sort, I strongly urge you to unfollow me.  I’m not going to try and convince you to change; I just simply wish to avoid associating in any way with those who are transphobic.  Merci.

littlelionn:

It’s a usual occurence for me to hear derogatory terms slurred in day to day life: on the street, on the internet, people thinking they’re making jokes, in the media, etc. They don’t even have to be in accordance with the LGBTQ community, though with me they tend to be. Hate is rampant in society.
I’ll wear slander like proud slogans on my chest for every kid who can’t take it, because words only hold the power you give them. I’ll brand them like I’m cattle and carry them around, because they have little effect anymore, but that’s just me. So I’m wearing them for the gay kid too afraid to come out in his town, or for the FTM too afraid to wear the right clothes. I’ll wear them for the teenager struggling with her sexuality or for the 60 year old couple who’ve been in love for years and are still spat on in the street.

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littlelionn:

It’s a usual occurence for me to hear derogatory terms slurred in day to day life: on the street, on the internet, people thinking they’re making jokes, in the media, etc. They don’t even have to be in accordance with the LGBTQ community, though with me they tend to be. Hate is rampant in society.

I’ll wear slander like proud slogans on my chest for every kid who can’t take it, because words only hold the power you give them. I’ll brand them like I’m cattle and carry them around, because they have little effect anymore, but that’s just me. So I’m wearing them for the gay kid too afraid to come out in his town, or for the FTM too afraid to wear the right clothes. I’ll wear them for the teenager struggling with her sexuality or for the 60 year old couple who’ve been in love for years and are still spat on in the street.

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